QUESTIONS & ANSWERS
What is an Annulment?
There is a lot of
misinformation out there about annulments, divorce and the sacraments.
Some of you may have read or heard about Sheila Kennedy’s book about her struggle to
prevent her marriage from being annulled. Perhaps you heard about someone married for years
who received an annulment and wondered how this was possible? How can the Church say that no
marriage took place?
First, what does the Catholic Church teach about marriage:
"Marriage is a covenant by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a
partnership of the whole of life, which is by its nature ordered toward the good
of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant
between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a
Jesus Christ taught us that true marriage is
This comes from the Gospels as in Matthew 19:1-12.
Therefore, the Catholic Church does not recognize divorce or second marriages.
Before we get into annulments, let me answer some questions about divorce:
- Can a divorced person receive Communion?
Definitely. A divorced person is in a situation similar to that of a single person
in the Church, with full rights and duties except for the right to enter a new
marriage without having first obtained an annulment.
- When I die, can I be buried by the Church?
Yes, It is presumed that a person continues to practice his/her faith after a
divorce. Frank Sinatra was buried by the Church even though he was several times
divorced and remarried.
- Is a divorced person excommunicated from the Church?
No, a Catholic is not excommunicated when she/he is divorced. The only penalty of
excommunication was imposed by the Third Plenary Council of Baltimore in
1884 and only applied only to American Catholics who remarried after a
divorce from a valid marriage. This penalty was lifted by the National Council
of American Bishops and the Pope in 1977. Therefore, the penalty of
excommunication doesn't apply to divorced or remarried persons.
- Does that mean that a remarried Catholic who has
not obtained a Church annulment can receive Holy Communion too?
No, even though a remarried Catholic who has not received an annulment is not
excommunicated, it does not mean that remarried Catholics can automatically
receive Communion. That tradition was recently summarized and repeated by the
International Theological Commission, a consultative body to the
Vatican Congregation for the Doctrine of Faith.
- I don't want to get an annulment and don't want to
remarry-- where do I fit in?
There are many men and women who do not choose to marry or remarry.
The single life has always been held in high esteem in the Church.
The opportunities for growth, for ministry to others in the community and for full
participation in the life of the Church are especially available to those who have not
ever married, or have not remarried.
So, then, what is an annulment?
Well…first, the exact term is a declaration of nullity.
A declaration of nullity within the Catholic Church is a decision that
a given marriage lacked from the beginning one of the essential elements of
marriage and was therefore not a sacramental marriage. It is a judgment that
one or both of the parties did not give proper consent to marriage. This judgment
is reached through a full and careful inquiry into the history of the individuals
and the marriage. A marriage is presumed to be valid unless proven otherwise.
A declaration of nullity within the Catholic Church has no effect whatsoever
in civil law. It does not affect in any manner the legitimacy of children.
Before I answer some common questions about annulments, let me describe the three
forms in which a marriage can be nullified:
- The most common case for a declaration of nullity is a Lack of Canonical Form
(Canon Law 1108-1123). In a lack of canonical form a marriage that ended in a
divorce can be annulled if the Catholic party to the marriage was married outside
of the Church and the Catholic party did not receive a dispensation from the Church
to marry or if the marriage was not conducted by a lawfully delegated priest or
deacon and in the presence of 2 witnesses.
- What most people think of an annulment is declared in one of three ways:
- Impediments to Marriage (Canon Law 1073-1094) - an impediment is a
circumstance which renders the marriage invalid of illicit
- Age 16 yrs old for a man and 14 yrs old for a woman
- Impotence - the inability to engage in normal intercourse in a human manner
(present before the exchange of vows and permanent)
- Prior valid bond - a person was already married before this marriage.
- Disparity of Cult - a Catholic marries a non-baptized person without
the required dispensation.
- Sacred Orders - a priest, deacon or bishop cannot marry
- Public perpetual vow of chastity in a religious institute
- Crime - if you murder your spouse to marry another, your new marriage in invalid
- Kinship - the laws of consanguinity:
you cannot be related by blood in a direct line (parents & children)
in a collateral line to the 4th degree (brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins)
affinity in the direct line (mother and father-in-laws), children from spouses previous marriage
- public propriety
- Lack of Consent (Canon Law 1095-1107) - a majority of marriage nullity
cases are a lack of proper consent at the time of the exchange of marriage vows.
According to Canon law consent makes marriage. Where there is a failure on the
part of one of both parties to give complete consent required by law, the marriage
is invalid. There are 3 categories:
- Defects of Consent
- Lack of Reason
- Grave Lack of Discretion of Judgment
- Incapacity to assume the obligations of marriage due to reasons of a
- Defects of Knowledge
- Ignorance (do not know what marriage is about)
- Error (marry the wrong twin or marry someone because you think she is
pregnant or he is the father of your child)
- Fraud - a person is deceived into marriage
- Simple error -error about the unity, indissolubility or sacramental dignity
of marriage which affect the relationship between the couple.
- Defects of the Will
- Simulation - marrying someone to get into the country or refusing to have
children or have sex.
- Force and Grave Fear - forced into a marriage
- Conditional Consent - based on a condition about the future.
- Pauline Privilege - from St. Paul: 2 non-baptized people marry.
One becomes a Christian and the other spouse refuses to let the Christian spouse
to practice his/her faith. The marriage can be dissolved. Must be appealed to
Questions about Annulments
- How do I start the procedure?
A Catholic who wishes to clarify his/her status before the Church should first approach their
parish priest or deacon to find out the particulars of diocesan policy. In most cases,
the person is asked to write a resume of their background, their courtship, their difficulties
in the marriage, the cause or causes, in their judgment, for the separation, the divorce and
their life after divorce. This is sent to the Marriage Tribunal along with certified copies of
marriage license, divorce decree, baptismal information and other papers.
- Does my former spouse have to cooperate?
No, but because the annulment procedure affects him/her, your former spouse must be informed of
the procedure and is given the opportunity to tell his/her side.
- How are the allegations proved?
Primarily, the testimony of at least three witnesses, counselors or other parties is needed to
substantiate the allegations of the petitioner.
- Can anyone be a witness?
Two criteria should be used--they should be knowledgeable of the marriage and the personalities
of the parties, or of the difficulties in the marriage. They should also be objective witnesses
- Does everyone who applies get an annulment?
No, but the majority of those who have their petitions accepted by the Tribunal do get annulments.
Some petitions for the formal process are denied, however, but always for stated serious reasons.
- Why would an annulment not be granted?
There are times, of course, when a person doesn't seem to have provable grounds for nullity as
understood by the Church today. The more usual reason for denying an annulment is the situation
wherein the allegations cannot be proven, usually because witnesses are either unavailable or
- My former spouse was baptized a Catholic but never had anything to do
with the Church/practice of Catholicism. Would that lack of faith be considered grounds for the
nullity of our supposedly sacramental marriage?
At the present time, no. Some theologians and canonists have suggested that such a lack of belief
destroys any complete, sacramental marriage. The identification of marriage between baptized
persons (Catholic or not) and the sacrament of marriage in Catholic law was formulated in the last
century but is traditional.
- Are there any civil effects of the annulment?
No, a Church annulment in this country is solely for the spiritual well-being of the parties.
Annulments have no effect on any decisions of civil courts, the status of the parties
(or their children) in civil law..
- How does an annulment affect my children? Does it make them
An annulment has no effect on the status of children in the Church. Obviously, the children
exist as a gift of God. Legitimacy is a legal category; civil and canon law can make laws
that affect the legitimacy of children, and canon law states explicitly that children born
of a marriage that is later declared to be null are legitimate. The annulment is based on the
fact that a sacramental marriage did not exist.
- If I get an annulment does that meant that my former
spouse can remarry?
An annulment does not mean that either of you can automatically remarry in the Church.
The Church would want to be certain that the invalidating factor is no longer present.
When this occurs, then both parties are free to remarry in the Church.
- What does an annulment say about my past life--was I living in
sin when I thought I was married?
An annulment says that a previous marriage did not fulfill all the requirements for a
valid marriage in ecclesiastical law. It does not say that the relationship was good for nothing;
it might have been a good one for some time, and we are all affected by the people we meet and know.
There is no way one can commit sin if she/he is unaware of the invalidity of the marriage.
A sacramental marriage presupposes that each partner is able to commit him or herself at the time
of the wedding and therefore make that commitment at the time of the vows, to encourage a
"community of life and love" with each other.
An annulment process does not determine the guilt of either partner.
This is simply a non-adversarial procedure in which the final judgment is only based on a
fact question: Was this a sacramental union, or wasn't it? It's a question of fact, not a question
- Deacon George Kozak
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